He is not just in me, but He IS me. I can choose to keep my life, to be in control, or i can let Him take over and live not just through me, or in me, but as me. I think too many people just think of the Holy Spirit as being "in" us, when there is so much more potential to it than that. Surrendering doesnt mean sharing, so to truly surrender our lifes, to truly lose our life, we must let Him have complete control of our thoughts, our hearts, our very actions and bodies must be surrendered to Him to do what He pleases with.

there is more to this, i just have to ponder some more.